Step 4: Service of process
The abuser must be "served," or given papers that tell him/her about your domestic relationship PPO.
A police officer, a process server, or another adult must personally serve the respondent with the PPO and other court paperwork. You cannot serve the respondent yourself. The abuser may also be served by certified mail, return receipt requested. The mail must be specifically directed to the abuser (you must include his/her name as the name for delivery and not some other person who lives with the abuser). Check with the clerk to be sure of the proper instructions for service. If the abuser is a minor (under 18), his/her parent, guardian or custodian must also be served either personally or by certified mail.1
In most counties, there is no charge to have the authorities serve the abuser (although some sheriff's offices may charge a fee for service and mileage). You cannot serve the papers on the abuser yourself.
1 MCLA 600.2950(18); Michigan Court's Instructions for Personal Protection Forms