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This section has information about orders of protection and moving in and out of state with an order of protection.

Orders of Protection

An order of protection is a civil order that provides protection from someone who you are married to, separated from, divorced from, have a child in common with, are/were in an intimate/dating relationship with (including same-sex couples) or are related to by blood or marriage.

Basic information and definitions

What is the legal definition of domestic violence ("family offenses") in New York?

This section defines domestic violence for the purposes of getting a civil order of protection (which is often obtained in family court). To get an order of protection, you must allege that the abuser committed one or more "family offenses" against you. (The petition for an order of protection is called a "family offense petition.") The following crimes are considered to be family offenses when the victim and abuser are/were related by blood, marriage, in an intimate relationship, or they have a child in common:

  1. Disorderly conduct
  2. Harassment (1st degree, 2nd degree)
  3. Aggravated harassment (2nd degree)
  4. Stalking (1st degree, 2nd degree, 3rd degree, 4th degree)
  5. Menacing (2nd degree, 3rd degree)
  6. Reckless endangerment (1st degree, 2nd degree)
  7. Assault (2nd degree, 3rd degree)
  8. Attempted assault
  9. Criminal mischief (1st degree, 2nd degree, 3rd degree, 4th degree)
  10. Sexual misconduct
  11. Forcible touching
  12. Sexual abuse (2nd degree, 3rd degree)
  13. Strangulation (1st degree, 2nd degree)
  14. Criminal obstruction of breathing or blood circulation
  15. Identity theft (1st degree, 2nd degree, 3rd degree)
  16. Grand larceny (3rd degree, 4th degree)
  17. Coercion (2nd degree, 3rd degree) - Note: only subsections (1), (2), (3) of the crime of coercion in the third degree (NY Penal Law § 135.60) are included as a family offense.1

Note: A petition for an order of protection cannot be dismissed or denied based only on the fact that the incident(s) you allege happened a while before you applied for the order.2

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 812(1)
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 812(1); NY Dom Rel Law § 240(3)(e)

What is the legal definition of an "intimate relationship?"

An intimate relationship includes heterosexual and same-sex couples who are/were dating but do not have a child in common. An "intimate" relationship does not have to mean a sexual one. To decide if a relationship is intimate, the judge will look at the nature (type) of the relationship, and how often and for how long the people in the relationship were in contact.1

Since judges can interpret the word "intimate" differently, a broad range of people may be able to file against each other that you might not expect. For example, in one case, a judge ruled that a man's new girlfriend could file against his ex-girlfriend who harassed her since both women had children with the man and the new girlfriend helped raise the ex-girlfriend's children.2

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 812(1)(e)
2 See R.M.W. v. G.M.M. & K.F. v. G.M.M, 2009 N.Y. Slip Op. 29038

What types of orders of protection are there? How long can they last?

There are two types of orders: a temporary ex parte order of protection and a final order of protection.

When you apply for an order of protection (usually in family court), the judge can issue a temporary order of protection if s/he believes there is "good cause" to do so.1 The temporary order usually lasts until you can have a full court hearing, which may not happen for many court dates. If the hearing does not happen on the first date you return to court, usually the judge will extend the order of protection from court date to court date.2 On the hearing date, the abuser will have an opportunity to attend the full court hearing and present his/her side. Based on the testimony and evidence, a judge will decide whether to issue a final order of protection.

Note: If you need to file for an order of protection when the family court is closed, you can file for it in criminal court. The local criminal court can issue an ex parte temporary order that will last for no longer than 4 days. The order will generally be transferred to family court and the case would be scheduled for the next day that the family court is in session - and you must file your petition in family court on/before that date for your case to continue.3

A final order of protection may last up to 5 years, depending on the facts of your specific case. Usually the order will be granted for up to 2 years but if the judge determines that one or more "aggravating circumstances" exist, you can request that your order last for up to 5 years. Aggravating circumstances include:

  • physical injury or serious physical injury;
  • the use of a dangerous instrument (including a weapon);
  • a history of repeated violations of prior orders of protection by the abuser;
  • prior convictions for crimes against you by the abuser;
  • the exposure of any family or household member to physical injury by the abuser; or
  • prior incidents and behaviors of the abuser that make the judge believe the abuser is an immediate and ongoing danger to you or any member of your family or household.4

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 828(1)(a)
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 828(3)
3 NY Fam Ct Act § 154-d(1)
4 NY Fam Ct Act § 827(a)(vii)

Can the abuser's gun be taken away as part of a temporary order of protection?

With a temporary order of protection, there are certain cases where the judge is supposed to order that the abuser's firearms (including rifles and shotguns) are taken away and that his/her gun license is suspended. The judge should take away the abuser's guns and suspend his/her gun license if any of the following exist:

  • the judge finds that there is a "substantial risk" that the abuser may use or threaten to use a gun against you or anyone else on your order of protection (such as your children);
  • the abuser has a prior conviction of a violent felony offense;
  • the abuser has been convicted in the past of stalking; or
  • a judge found that the abuser "willfully" (purposefully) violated an order of protection in the past and, in committing such violation, the abuser caused you serious physical injury; or used or threatened to use a deadly weapon or dangerous instrument; or his/her behavior qualified as a violent felony offense.1

If the judge does not check off the appropriate box or write in this gun restriction on the order, be sure to speak up and ask the judge to do this (if this is what you want). Otherwise, you may have to wait until you are given a permanent order to get his/her guns and gun license taken away.

1 NY Family Court Act § 842-a(1)(a), (1)(b)

What protections can I get in an order of protection?

An order of protection can:

  • order the abuser to stop abusing you and your children;
  • tell the abuser to leave and stay away from you, your home, your workplace, and your family; (Note: the abuser can be removed from the home or ordered to stay away from the home that you were both living even if his/her name is on the lease or deed);
  • direct the abuser to have no contact with you including no phone calls, letters, or messages through other people (called "third party contact");
  • order the abuser to pay your attorney's fees that you paid to get (or later enforce) the order;
  • order the abuser to give up his/her guns (including rifles and shotguns) and gun license (as part of a temporary order or as part of a final order);
  • order the abuser to not intentionally injure or kill, without justification, any pet that belongs to you or a minor child residing in the household;
  • give you temporary custody and arrange for visitation for the duration of the order of protection;
  • make an order for temporary child support in an amount that is "sufficient to meet the needs of the child" even if the details about the income and assets of the abuser are unavailable. You do not have to show an immediate or emergency need for the support; (Note: If the abuser has employer-provided insurance, the judge can make an order that directs the employer to provide such insurance to your child);
  • order the abuser to not do anything that creates an unreasonable risk to the health, safety or welfare of your child;
  • order the abuser to pay for expenses related to the abuse such as medical care and property damage;
  • authorize the person leaving the home (whether it is you or the abuser) to retrieve his/her undisputed personal belongings from the home with a police escort;
  • order the abuser to participate in a batterer's educational program and to pay for it if s/he has the means to do so;1
  • order the abuser to promptly return your and/or your minor child's "identification documents" including passports, birth certificates, immigration documents, bank cards, etc.;2 and
  • do anything else that is necessary for your protection.1

Note: If you meet certain requirements, you can also ask the judge to terminate your rental lease with your landlord without financial penalty to you if you need to leave your rental unit to keep safe.3 See our Housing Laws page for information on what you need to prove to get the judge to do this.

Whether or not a judge orders any or all of these things depends on the facts of your case.

1 NY Fam Ct Act §§ 842, 842-a
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 842 (j); NY Dom Rel §§ 240(3)(a)(8), 252(1)(h)
3 NY Fam Ct Act § 842; NY RPL § 227-c(1)

Can the abuser's guns be taken away as part of a final order of protection?

With a final order of protection, there are certain cases where the judge is supposed to take away the abuser's guns and revoke his/her gun license.

The judge is supposed to take away the abuser's guns (including rifles and shotguns) and revoke his/her gun license if the judge determines that either of the following are true:

  1. there is a "substantial risk" that the abuser may use or threaten to use a gun against you or anyone else on your order of protection (such as your children); or
  2. the judge believes that the conduct (acts) which resulted in your getting the order of protection was based upon the abuser:

The order of protection must say that the abuser has to surrender his guns/ license (usually a box is checked on page 2) for it to be illegal under NY state law (although it could still be illegal under federal law even if not written as a term of your order). If the judge does not mention it in court and you want the guns to be removed, be sure to speak up and ask the judge to do this.

1 NY Family Court Act §842-a(2)(a), (2)(b)

In which county can I file for an order of protection?

You can file a petition in the county where the abuse took place, in the county where you live, or in the county where the abuser lives.1 However, if you live in NY state but the abuser lives out of state, at least one of the abusive acts that you allege in your petition must have taken place in NY state for the court to be able to grant you an order of protection.2 If the abuser threatens you on the phone, through texts or emails, these acts could be considered to have "taken place" in NY state if you receive the phone calls, texts or emails in NY.

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 818
2 NY Fam Ct Act §154(c)(1)

Who can get an order of protection

Can I get an order of protection?

You can apply for an order of protection if you are legally married to, separated from, or divorced from the abuser, if you are related to the abuser by blood or marriage, if you have a child in common with the abuser, or if you are/ were in an intimate relationship with him/her (including same-sex partners).1  Even if the abuser has committed a crime against you and you have an order of protection from criminal court, you can still apply for a civil, family court order of protection since both courts have what is called "concurrent jurisdiction."2

Note: An order of protection can also be issued in supreme court,3 which is the court in NY state where divorces (and other civil matters) are filed and litigated.  (However, throughout this section we generally refer to them as family court orders of protection).  You can request an order of protection at any time before trial or before a settlement is final in the divorce.  However, getting changes made to a supreme court order can be difficult and expensive.  It might be a good idea to request that the order include a provision that any future changes can be made in family court. 

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 812(1)
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 115(e)
3 NY Dom Rel Law § 240(3)

Can I get an order of protection against a same-sex partner?

In New York, you may apply for an order of protection against a current or former same-sex partner as long as the relationship meets the requirements listed in Can I get an order of protection?  You must also be the victim of an act of domestic violence, which is explained here What is the legal definition of domestic violence ("family offenses") in New York?

You can find information about LGBTQIA victims of abuse and what types of barriers they may face on our LGBTQIA Victims page.

How much does it cost to get an order of protection?

There are no fees to file a petition for an order of protection.

I am a minor. Can I get an order of protection without the help of an adult?

You may be able to get an order of protection on your own in family court – the main law covering family court orders of protection doesn’t have any specific rules for minors. (For information on who is eligible to file in family court, see Can I get an order of protection?)

Various scenarios might happen:

  • The judge might allow you to have a hearing without the help of an adult.
  • The judge may want to appoint either a guardian ad litem or an attorney (formerly called a "law guardian") to help you with your case. 
  • The judge might order that your parent(s) be involved. If getting your parent(s) involved would put you in danger, be sure to let the judge know, and request that the judge appoint you an attorney instead.

You may want to contact a domestic violence organization or legal resource in your area for assistance and support - see our NY Places that Help page.  

Can I bring a friend or other person with me for support?

Most likely, yes. The law says that if you are the petitioner in an order of protection case, you are allowed to have a friend, relative, counselor or social worker present in the court room with you for support - even if you are represented by a lawyer. That person cannot participate in the court case as a lawyer could unless the judge decides on his/her own to question that person.1

If you are the respondent in an order of protection case, you also have the same right to bring someone with you for support but only if you do not have a lawyer representing you. The judge does have the right to exclude this person from the courtroom however if the judge finds it "undesirable" to have the person there.1

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 838

Do I need to have an attorney?

You do not have to have an attorney at the hearing but you may want one, especially if you think the abuser will have a lawyer.

The court should advise both you and the abuser that you each have a right to hire a lawyer to represent you and that if you cannot afford to hire a lawyer, you can ask the court to assign a lawyer to represent you for free (if you are a low-income person.)1  In order to qualify for a free court-appointed lawyer, you must meet certain income requirements and the judge may ask you to produce paystubs or other proof of your income.  Do not be afraid to speak up and ask for an attorney even if the judge does not ask you if you want one appointed.

Even if you choose to proceed without an attorney or if the court delays in appointing an attorney for you, we recommended that you consult with an attorney to make sure that your legal rights are protected.  For more information on domestic violence agencies and legal assistance in your area, please go to NY Places that Help.

1 NY Fam Ct Act §262(a)(ii)

Steps for obtaining an order of protection

Step 1: Go to court to file the petition.

In family court, you can file your petition in the county where either you or the abuser lives, or where one of the family offenses (acts) alleged in your petition took place.  However, one thing to consider is that if you are living in a domestic violence shelter or other confidential location that is in a different county than where the abuser lives and where the violence took place, you may not want to file your petition in the county where you are living.  If you do, the abuser will likely figure out that you filed in that county because you are living in that county and it might be easier for the abuser to find you if s/he knows what county you are living in.  To find the courthouse in your area, go to NY Courthouse LocationsNote: NY State has an Address Confidentiality Program ("ACP"), which helps a victim who registers with the program to keep his/her address confidential when filing court petitions.  To register, click here.

Depending on where you live, you may have the option to file your petition electronically (at a local family justice center or other organization) and make an "electronic appearance" so that the judge can question you and issue an ex parte temporary order. This electronic filing and first appearance is aimed at accommodating victims for whom going to court to file for an ex parte order would create an undue hardship or risk of harm.1

If the incident was reported to the police, you may want to bring the police report to court, if possible.  Remember to bring some form of identification (a driver's license or another picture I.D.).

At the courthouse, ask the clerk for the forms that you need to file. You can also find links to online court forms on our NY Download Court Forms page.  You may be able to get help with this process through one of the domestic violence agencies listed on our NY Advocates and Shelters page.

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 153-c

Step 2: Fill out the forms.

In family court, the petition that you file for an order of protection is called a "family offense petition." Carefully fill out the petition. You will be the "Petitioner" and the abuser will be the "Respondent."

Many judges will automatically issue an immediate temporary ex parte order of protection on the first court date (also known as the "intake date"). Other times, the judge might issue only a summons for the other party to appear in court before issuing a temporary order or protection. If you feel that you need a temporary order to protect you right away, you should speak up and ask for one.

Read the petition for an order of protection carefully and ask questions if you don’t understand something. Describe in detail how the abuser (respondent) injured or threatened you. Explain when and where the abuse or threats occurred. You will usually be asked to include details about the most recent incident of violence as well as prior incidents. It is important to use descriptive language (slapping, hitting, grabbing, strangling, threatening, etc.) and include details about injuries or pain you suffered, dates of the incidents, and even the specific language of threats made by the abuser if possible. For example, instead of just saying "the Respondent physically abused me and I got hurt," it would be more informative to the judge to explain what happened, such as "the Respondent hit me in the face approximately 3 times with a closed fist causing me to get a black eye that lasted for a week."

Note: Do not sign the form until you have shown it to a clerk. The form might need to be signed in front of a notary public or a judge.

If you do not want to put your address on the forms, the court should have a way for you to keep it confidential. Be sure to bring this to the clerk's attention. Another possibility may be to register for NY State's Address Confidentiality Program ("ACP"). The ACP allows a victim who registers with the program to keep his/her address confidential when filing court petitions. All mail is sent to the ACP and the ACP will send it to your actual (confidential) address. To register, click here.

Step 3: A judge will review your petition.

After you finish filling out your petition, bring it to the court clerk. The clerk will take it to a judge who may issue either a summons for the abuser to appear in court on a certain date, or a warrant for his or her arrest, depending upon the circumstances.

The judge may also issue a temporary order of protection and, if requested, the judge can also issue a temporary order of custody.  The judge can also temporarily order child support in an amount sufficient to meet the needs of the child, without having to prove an immediate or emergency need for the money.  The judge can make this order of temporary child support even if you do not know the respondent's income.1  Furthermore, the judge may issue temporary custody during the term of the order of protection to either parent or an "appropriate relative."1

In order to get final order of protection, there are two possibilities.  The first possibility is that the case will go to trial.  During a trial, or hearing, both you and the abuser will have an opportunity to be heard (through testimony) and either party can present evidence in support of their case.  The judge would then make his/her decision after hearing the evidence.  In order to get a five year order of protection, the judge must make a "finding" that aggravating circumstances existed.  The second possibility is that the parties (you and the abuser) come to an agreement or settlement under which the respondent (the abuser) consents to you having a final order of protection against him/her.  An order of protection issued "on consent," as it may be called, is usually only given for up to two years since the respondent can usually consent to the order of protection without admitting any wrongdoing. If you believe that you can prove "aggravating circumstances," and you are willing to go through a trial, you can ask for a trial and try to seek a five-year order rather than agree to get an order on consent which would only last up to two years. (Check the section entitled What types of orders of protection are there? How long can they last? to read about aggravating circumstances)

1 See NY Fam Ct Act § 842(j)

Step 4: Service of process

The court will give you instructions on how the summons, petition, and order of protection can be served on the abuser. The court should also tell you that you have the right to have the Police Department serve the summons, petition, and order. In many counties, you can also use the Sheriff's office instead of the police department - call your local Sheriff's office for their hours of operation and to make sure there is no fee involved. Note: NY state has an Order of Protection Notification System, which allows you to be notified by e-mail, text, iPhone/iPad app, telephone, fax or web query, when law enforcement serves your family court order of protection upon the abuser.

Service of process is important because an order of protection does not go into effect (is not valid) until it is served. Furthermore, the respondent (the abuser) has to be given notice of the court date since the respondent has the right to appear in court on the next court date.

Please remember that if you are using a friend, relative or a process server to serve the papers, that person has to be over 18 years of age. Since you are what is called a "party" to the case, you cannot serve the court papers yourself. The police are required by law to help with service and have to try more than once to find the respondent if they cannot find him/her on the first attempt.

It is important that no matter who serves the court papers, you ensure that the person who serves the papers fills out the affidavit of service that the court will give to you and that you bring the completed affidavit to court with you on your return court date. This is your proof that the respondent was served even if s/he doesn't show up in court. The affidavit of service usually asks for the time and date that the respondent was served as well as other identifying information about the respondent such as his/her physical appearance, etc. The affidavit of service must be notarized. If you are using the police or sheriff to serve the papers, they usually will fill out what is called an affirmation of service and it does not need to be notarized. If you have a question as to whether the form needs to be notarized, you should check with your local court clerk.

Step 5: The hearing

It is very important that you attend all of the court dates.  If you find out you absolutely cannot attend, contact the court clerk immediately and ask how you can get a "continuance" or an "adjournment" for a later court date.  If you do not attend, the judge may dismiss your case and any temporary orders of protection will stop being effective.

If the court case does not settle, it will go to a hearing (trial).  At the hearing, you will be able to testify in court about the abuse and harassment you have experienced, present witnesses and other evidence to support your case.  The abuser will be allowed to do the same.  If you are not represented by a lawyer, you may want to consult with a lawyer before the hearing to understand what documents and evidence is legally admissible in court.  You can also find tips on our Preparing Your Case page.

If the abuser does not attend the hearing, the court may issue a "default judgment" and you may receive an order of protection against him/her in his/her absence.  The judge may hold what is called an "inquest," which is a one-sided trial where you present your evidence and testimony and the judge decides the case based on that alone.  It is also possible that the judge may decide to reschedule the hearing for a different day.

If you have a temporary order of protection, it may expire on the next court date and another temporary one may be issued that is effective until the following court date.  Be sure to look at the expiration date of the order before each court date so you know if the judge should be issuing another temporary order of protection on your return court date.  If the judge does not mention that the order of protection is extended or continued, be sure to ask the judge if a new order is being issued on your behalf.  Once the case goes to a hearing or trial, if you win your case, the judge would issue a final order of protection.

After the hearing

Can the abuser have a gun?

Once you get a protection order, there may be laws that prohibit the respondent from having a gun in his/her possession.  There are a few places where you can find this information:

  • first, read the questions on this page to see if judges in New York have to power to remove guns as part of a temporary or final order;
  • second, go to our State Gun Laws section to read about your state’s specific gun-related laws; and
  • third you can read our Federal Gun Laws section to understand the federal laws that apply to all states.

You can read more about keeping an abuser from accessing guns on the National Domestic Violence and Firearms Resource Center’s website

What should I do when I leave the courthouse?

Here are some things you may want to consider doing.  However, you will have to evaluate each one to see if it works for your situation.

  • Review the order before you leave the courthouse.  If something is wrong or missing, ask the clerk to correct the order before you leave.
  • If you are concerned that the abuser will harass you when you leave the courthouse, ask the court officer if s/he would escort you to the door of the building.  If you are afraid the abuser may follow you once you leave the courthouse, explain this to the court officer.  The court officer might hold the abuser there for a few minutes while you leave so that you can get a head start, which would make it difficult for the abuser to trail you.  This could be especially important if you are living in a shelter or confidential location and you do not want the abuser to know where you are staying.
  • Make several copies of the protective order as soon as possible.
  • Keep a copy of the order with you at all times.
  • Leave copies of the order at your work place, at your home, at the children's school or daycare, in your car, with a sympathetic neighbor, and so on.
  • Give a copy to the security guard or person at the front desk where you live and/or work along with a photo of the abuser.
  • Give a copy of the order to anyone who is named in and protected by the order.
  • If the court has not given you an extra copy for your local law enforcement agency, take one of your extra copies and deliver it to them.
  • You may wish to consider changing your locks (if permitted by law) and your phone number.  In some counties, there might be a domestic violence agency that would change your locks for free if you have an order of protection.  For example, Safe Horizon in NYC has such a program called Project Safe. 

Note: If you need the order of protection to be translated into a different language, this may be possible. Under New York law, if you used a court interpreter in the court proceedings, then the order of protection is supposed to be translated into your language.1

Ongoing safety planning is important after receiving the order. People can do a number of things to increase their safety during violent incidents, when preparing to leave an abusive relationship, and when they are at home, work, and school.  Many batterers obey protective orders, but some do not.  It is important to build on the things you have already been doing to keep yourself safe.  Click on the following link for suggestions on Safety Tips.  Advocates at local resource centers can also assist you in designing a safety plan and can provide other forms of support as well.

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 169

Can I modify (change) or extend my order?

Modifying an order
Once an order is issued, only a judge can change it. If you want to make changes to an order, you must request them from the court that issued the order (which is usually family court). The abuser and the attorney for the child, if there is one, would be notified and a hearing would be held where the judge would decide whether or not to grant the modification.1 Speak with the clerk of court to complete a petition for a modification of your order - you can see the affidavit that you would file in family court on the NY Courts website.

Note: If you need to modify your order when the family court is closed, you might be able to do it at the local criminal court. However, you must prove to the judge that the existing order is insufficient to protect you, your child, or other members of the your family or household - you can see the affidavit that you would file in criminal court on the NY Courts website. The local criminal court can issue an ex parte temporary (modified) order that will last for no longer than 4 days. The order will generally be made returnable to family court on the next day that the family court is in session - and you must file your petition in family court on/before that date for your case to continue.2

Extending an order
You can file to extend an order of protection for "good cause" even if no new incidents of abuse have occurred. It can also be extended if the abuser consents to the extension.3

1 NY Fam Ct Act § 154-c(2)
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 154-d(2)
3 NY Fam Ct Act § 842

Can I violate my own order?

No. A victim who has an order of protection (temporary or final) cannot violate his/her own order or be arrested for violating such order.1

1 NY Fam Ct Act §§ 842, 846(a-1)

What can I do if the abuser violates the order of protection?

If the abuser violates the order of protection, you can report it to the police.  Depending on the facts, the police may be required to arrest him/her according to what is commonly known as the Mandatory Arrest Law.1  According to the Law, the police "shall arrest" a person who violates the part of the order of protection that orders the abuser to "stay away" from you or if the abuser commits one of the crimes that falls into the category of "family offenses."1  The abuser can be arrested for contempt, for violating the court order, as well as for any other crime s/he may have committed when violating the order of protection.

Another option can be to file a violation/contempt petition in the court that issued the civil order of protection.  The violation petition and a summons must be served upon the abuser, or the court may issue a warrant for his/her arrest.  The judge will hold a hearing to determine if the order was violated and to decide what action should be taken against the abuser.  The judge may order that s/he go to jail for up to 6 months, a change in the conditions in your order of protection, and that s/he pay your attorney's fees for the violation court case.2 

In addition, the judge can order the abuser to immediately turn in his/her guns, revoke the abuser's gun license, and order that the respondent is ineligible to apply for a gun license (whether or not s/he currently has one).  In order to do this, the judge must find that the abuser willfully failed to obey a temporary or final order of protection and:

  1. there is a "substantial risk" that the abuser may use or threaten to use a gun against you or anyone else on your order of protection (such as your children); or
  2. the willful violation involves one of the following:

1 NY CPL §140.10(b)(ii)
2 NY Fam Ct Act § 846
3 NY Fam Ct Act § 846-a(3)

What happens if I move? Is my order still enforceable?

Your order of protection is enforceable in all states. If a person obtains an order of protection in one state and leaves that state, the law requires that all other states give “full faith and credit” to the order, meaning that it will be enforced just like it would be in NY. However, each state has its own laws and procedures. Some, like New York, have a computer system into which orders are entered and registered.

Any person with a valid order of protection (an order that has not expired) who relocates to another state may want to inquire at a court or law enforcement agency for instructions on the registration and enforcement of orders in that state.

Enforcing Your Out-Of-State Order in New York

If you are planning to move to New York or are going to be in New York for any reason, your protection or restraining order can be enforced.

General rules for out-of-state orders

Can I get my protection order enforced in New York? What are the requirements?

Yes. Your protection order can be enforced in New York as long as:

  • It was issued to prevent violent or threatening acts, harassing behavior, sexual violence, or it was issued to prevent another person from coming near you or contacting you.1
  • The court that issued the order had jurisdiction over the people and case. (In other words, the court had the authority to hear the case.)
  • The abuser received notice of the order and had an opportunity to go to court to tell his/her side of the story. It doesn’t matter if he actually showed up in court; just that he had the opportunity to do so.
    • In the case of ex parte temporary and emergency orders, the abuser must receive notice and have an opportunity to go to court to tell his/her side of the story at a hearing that is scheduled within a "reasonable time" after the order is issued.2

Note: For information on enforcing a military protective order (MPO) off the military installation, or enforcing a civil protection order (CPO) on a military installation, please see our Military Protective Orders page.

1 18 U.S.C. § 2266(5)
2 18 U.S.C. § 2265(a) & (b); NY Fam Ct Act §154-e(1)(b)

Can I have my out-of-state protection order changed, extended, or canceled in NY?

No. Only the state that issued your protection order can change, extend, or cancel the order. You cannot have this done by a court in NY.

To have your order changed, extended, or canceled, you will have to file a motion or petition in the court where the order was issued. You may be able to request that you attend the court hearing by telephone rather than in person, so that you do not need to return to the state where the abuser is living. To find out more information about how to modify a restraining order, see the Restraining Orders page for the state where your order was issued.

If your order does expire while you are living in NY, you may be able to get a new one issued in NY but this may be difficult to do if no new incidents of abuse have occurred in NY. To find out more information on how to get a protective order in New York, visit our NY Orders of Protection page.

I was granted temporary custody with my out-of-state protection order. Will I still have temporary custody of my children in NY?

Yes. As long as the child custody provision complies with certain federal laws,1 New York can enforce a temporary custody order that is a part of a protection order.

To have someone read over your order and tell you if it meets these standards, contact a lawyer in your area. To find a lawyer in your area click here NY Finding a Lawyer.

1 The federal laws are the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (UCCJA) or the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), and the Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act of 1980.

Registering your out-of-state order in New York

What is the National Crime Information Center (NCIC) Registry? Who has access to it?

The National Crime Information Center Registry (NCIC) is a nationwide, electronic database used by law enforcement agencies in the U.S, Canada, and Puerto Rico. It is managed by the FBI and state law enforcement officials.

Before moving to New York, the state that issued your protection order may already have entered your order into the NCIC. If not, your order will be entered into the NCIC once your order is registered in NY.

Note: Most law enforcement officials have access to the NCIC, but the information is encrypted so outsiders cannot access it.

How do I register my protection order in New York?

To register your protection order in New York, you need to bring a certified copy of the order and identification to the Petitions Division of the family court.  You will also need to sign an affidavit (sworn statement) that says that you believe it is a valid order that has not been vacated or modified.  The clerk will then either enter your order directly into the New York Statewide Police Information Network (NYSPIN) or fax it to the registry center to be entered.1  

If you need help registering your protection order, you can contact a local domestic violence organization in New York for assistance. You can find contact information for organizations in your area here on our NY Advocates and Shelters page.

1 NY Executive Law § 221-a

Do I have to register my protection order in New York in order to get it enforced?

No. According to federal Law,1 all states, including New York, must enforce an out-of-state protection order. It does not have to be entered into the state or federal registry in order to be enforced by a New York police officer, but the officer does need to believe that it is a valid (real) order.2

1 18 USC § 2265
2 NY CPL § 140.10(b)(ii)

Will the abuser be notified if I register my protection order?

Under the federal Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), which applies to all U.S. states and territories, the court is not permitted to notify the abuser when a protective order has been registered or filed in a new state unless you specifically request that the abuser be notified.1  However, you may wish to confirm that the clerk is aware of this law before registering the order if your address is confidential.

However, remember that there may be a possibility that the abuser could somehow find out what state you have moved to.  It is important to continue to safety plan, even if you are no longer in the state where the abuser is living.  We have some safety planning tips to get you started on our Staying Safe page.  You can also contact a local domestic violence organization to get help in developing a personalized safety plan. You will find contact information for organizations in your area on our NY Advocates and Shelters page.

1 18 USC § 2265(d)

What if I don't register my protection order? Will it be more difficult to have it enforced?

While neither federal law nor state law requires that you register your protection order in order to get it enforced1, if your order is not entered into the state registry, it may be more difficult for a NY law enforcement official to determine whether your order is real, which means that it could take longer to get your order enforced.

If you are unsure about whether registering your order is the right decision for you, you may want to contact a local domestic violence organization in your area. An advocate there can help you decide what the safest plan of action is for you in New York. To see a list of local domestic violence organizations in NY, go to our NY Advocates and Shelters page.

1 NY Fam Ct Act 154-e(2)

Does it cost anything to register my protection order?

No. There is no fee for registering your protection order in New York.1

1 NY Executive Law §221-a(3)

Moving to Another State with an Order of Protection

If you are moving to another state or are going to be out of the state for any reason, your New York order of protection can still be enforceable where ever you go.

General rules

Can I get my order of protection from NY enforced in another state?

Yes.  If you have a valid New York order of protection that meets federal standards, it can be enforced in another state. The Violence Against Women Act, which is a federal law, states that all valid orders of protection granted in the United States receive "full faith and credit" in all state and tribal courts within the US, including US territories. See How do I know if my order of protection is good under federal law? to find out if your order of protection qualifies.

Each state must enforce out-of-state orders of protection in the same way it enforces its own orders, which means that if the abuser violates your out-of-state order of protection, s/he will be punished according to the laws of whatever state you are in when the order is violated. This is what is meant by "full faith and credit."

How do I know if my order of protection is good under federal law?

An order of protection is good anywhere in the United States as long as:

  • It was issued to prevent violent or threatening acts, harassing behavior, sexual violence, or it was issued to prevent another person from coming near you or contacting you.1
  • The court that issued the order had jurisdiction over the people and case. (In other words, the court had the authority to hear the case.)
  • The abuser received notice of the order and had an opportunity to go to court to tell his/her side of the story. It doesn’t matter if he actually showed up in court; just that he had the opportunity to do so.
    • In the case of ex parte temporary and emergency orders, the abuser must receive notice and have an opportunity to go to court to tell his/her side of the story at a hearing that is scheduled within a "reasonable time" after the order is issued.2

Note: For information on enforcing a military protective order (MPO) off the military installation, or enforcing a civil protection order (CPO) on a military installation, please see our Military Protective Orders page.

1 18 U.S.C. § 2266(5)(A)
2 18 U.S.C. § 2265(a) & (b)

How do I get my order of protection enforced in another state?

Federal law does not require you to take any special steps to get your order from protection enforced in another state.

Many states do have laws or regulations (rules) about registering or filing of out-of-state orders, which can make enforcement easier, but a valid order from protection is enforceable regardless of whether it has been registered or filed in the new state.1 Rules differ from state to state, so it may be helpful to find out what the rules are in your new state. You can contact a local domestic violence organization for more information by visiting our Advocates and Shelters page and entering your new state in the drop-down menu.

1 18 U.S.C. § 2265(d)(2)

I have a temporary order of protection. Can it be enforced in another state?

Yes. An ex parte temporary order can be enforced in other states as long as it meets the requirements listed in How do I know if my order of protection is good under federal law?1

Note: The state where you are going generally cannot extend your ex parte temporary order or issue you a permanent order when the temporary one expires. If you need to extend your temporary order, you will have to contact the state that issued the order and arrange to be at the hearing in person or by telephone (if that is an option offered by the court). However, you may be able to reapply for one in the new state that you are moving to if you meet the requirements for getting a protective order in that state – but, if you apply for one in a new state, the abuser would know what state you are living in, which may put you in danger.

1 18 U.S.C. § 2265(b)(2)

Getting your order of protection enforced in another state

 

Do I need anything special to get my order of protection enforced in another state?

In some states, you will need a certified copy of your order of protection. A certified copy says that it is a "true and correct" copy; it is signed and initialed by the clerk of court that gave you the order, and usually has some kind of court stamp on it. In New York, a certified order has a stamp and a raised seal on it.

You will likely be given a certified copy when you get your order. To get an additional one, or if you don't have one, you can go to the petitions division of your courthouse. There is no fee to get a certified copy of a New York order of protection.

Note:
It is a good idea to keep a copy of the order with you at all times. You will also want to bring several copies of the order with you when you move. Leave copies of the order at your work place, at your home, at the children's school or daycare, in your car, with a sympathetic neighbor, and so on. Give a copy to the security guard or person at the front desk where you live and/or work. Give a copy of the order to anyone who is named in and protected by the order.

Can I get someone to help me? Do I need a lawyer?

You do not need a lawyer to get your order of protection enforced in another state.  However, you may want to get help from a local domestic violence advocate or attorney in the state that you move to.  A domestic violence advocate can let you know what the advantages and disadvantages are for registering your order of protection, and help you through the process if you decide to do so.

To find a domestic violence advocate or an attorney in the state you are moving to, select your state from the Places that Help page.

Do I need to tell the court in New York if I move?

New York does not require you to tell the court if you move. However, it can be helpful for the court to have your new address so that they can let you know if anything changes with your order of protection.

If you choose to provide your new address to the court, you should be sure to let the court employee who is helping you that your address is confidential. The court should then note in the file that the address is confidential so that the public will not have access to it. However, your new address could possibly be released to court officials in your new state or law enforcement officials in either New York or your new state. If you feel unsafe giving your new address, you can use the address of a friend you trust or a P.O. Box instead.

If you have already asked that the court keep your New York address confidential, you must notify the clerk (or the neutral party who serves as your agent for service of process purposes) of your change of address.1

1 NY Fam Ct Act §154-b(2)(d)

Enforcing custody provisions in another state

I was granted temporary custody with my order of protection. Can I take my kids out of the state?

Maybe. It may depend on the exact wording of the custody provision in your order of protection. You may have to first seek the permission of the court before leaving.   If the abuser was granted visitation rights with your children, then you may have to have the order changed, or show the court that there is a fair and realistic alternative to the current visitation schedule.  To read more about custody laws in New York, go to our NY Custody page.

If you are unsure about whether or not you can take your kids out of the state, it is important to talk to a lawyer who understands domestic violence and custody laws, and can help you make the safest decision for you and your children.  You can find contact information for local domestic violence organizations and legal assistance in the NY area on our NY Places that Help page.

I was granted temporary custody with my order of protection. Will another state enforce this custody order?

Yes. Custody, visitation, and child support provisions that are included in an order of protection can be enforced across state lines. Law enforcement and courts in another state are required by federal law to enforce these provisions.1

1 18 USC § 2266