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Elder Abuse

Elder Abuse

Updated: 
August 15, 2019

This page is about older adults who are being abused by a caregiver. Sometimes a family member or an intimate partner can also be a caregiver. This means that if you are being abused by a caregiver, you may also qualify for a domestic violence restraining order in your state. You can see more about this in Can I get a restraining order for elder abuse? If you are an older adult in an abusive relationship with an intimate partner, you can read more about domestic violence on our Forms of Abuse page. You can also read about domestic violence restraining orders in your state on our Know the Laws - By State pages.

Basic info and definitions

Who is considered “elderly” or an “older adult?”

There are many definitions for “senior citizen,” “older adult,” or someone who is “elderly” in the United States. For instance, the original age set by the Social Security Administration (SSA) to collect retirement benefits in 1935 was 65 years old. Currently, it is 66 years old, with plans to increase it to 67 years old in the future. However, at 62 years old, the SSA allows a person to collect partial retirement benefits.1 The Older Americans Act provides services to people as young as 55 years old.2 The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention defines an “older adult” as someone who is at least 60 years old. Many states may also have different definitions of “elderly” when determining what resources are available in cases of elder abuse, although most states commonly use 65 years of age as the cut-off.3

1Benefits Planner: Retirement,” Social Security Administration
2Older Americans Act,” National Committee to Preserve Social Security & Medicare
3State Specific Laws,” Elder Abuse Guide for Law Enforcement

What types of “caregivers” are there?

There are many people who may be involved in an older adult’s care. Especially in cases where an older adult is mentally not able to make decisions for him/herself, the law often refers to a caregiver as a “responsible adult.” The types of caregivers include:

  • Family members or informal caregivers, who could be a relative, partner, friend, or neighbor with a significant personal relationship with the older adult. They may provide many different kinds of assistance for an older adult, and may be the main person responsible for an older adult’s care.
  • Formal caregivers, who are paid workers or volunteers that assist and care for an older adult through an organization or other formal service. They may provide a variety of supportive services, both in an older adult’s home or through local, community services. These services can include assistance with bathing, chores, adult day services, transportation, and meals.1

1 This information is adapted from the Family Caregiver Alliance.

What is elder abuse?

The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) defines elder abuse as “an intentional act, or failure to act, by a caregiver or another person in a relationship involving an expectation of trust that causes or creates a risk of harm to an older adult.”1 The World Health Organization (WHO) defines elder abuse as “a single, or repeated act, or lack of appropriate action, occurring within any relationship where there is an expectation of trust, which causes harm or distress to an older person.“2 In other words, elder abuse is when a person who an older adult should be able to trust harms or risks harm to the older adult, by either purposely hurting him/her or failing to stop him/her from being hurt. An older adult is defined by the CDC as someone age 60 or older.1 However, there isn’t one universally-recognized age for “older adults” as explained in Who is considered “elderly” or an “older adult?

1Elder Abuse: Definitions,” Centers for Disease Control
2Elder abuse,” World Health Organization

Signs of elder abuse and risk factors

How can I recognize signs of elder abuse?

Here are some common signs of abuse that an older adult may show. However, these are not all of the possible signs of elder abuse.

  • Signs of physical abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect:
    • bruises, especially when bruises are grouped in one area or in regular patterns;
    • black eyes;
    • welts;
    • signs of medication overdose;
    • signs of medication not being taken;
    • avoiding eye contact;
    • startling easily;
    • cringing from contact;
    • unusual or inappropriate affection;
    • change in sleep patterns;
    • complaints of stomachaches or headaches; and
    • refusal to see visitors.
  • Signs of emotional or psychological abuse:
    • agitation or fear in the presence of a specific person (usually the abuser);
    • withdrawal from contact and normal activities;
    • apathy;
    • regression to childlike behaviors, such as sucking, rocking, or biting; and
    • mood swings.
  • Signs of financial abuse:
    • shame;
    • suspicion; and
    • withdrawal from contact and normal activities.1

Many signs of elder abuse are often mistaken for normal issues with aging. For instance, a person may think an older adult has simply changed with age if s/he used to be outgoing and talkative, but now startles easily or avoids eye contact. Assessing elder abuse can be complicated, however, since many symptoms of elder abuse may, in fact, overlap with symptoms of aging or medical issues, such as dementia, frailty, or other problems related to age.

Often, if the older adult does report the abuse, the abuser will deny being abusive if confronted, and may say the older adult is making the abuse up, exaggerating, or misinterpreting normal behavior. In many cases, however, older adult victims of abuse, like victims of abuse of other ages, may deny that they are being abused for a variety of reasons.

Victims of elder abuse will each show different signs of abuse and need different kinds of help, just like victims of other ages. Signs of abuse may need to be compared to the older adult’s normal behavior, and considered in light of his/her mental and physical health. If you are concerned that an older adult is being abused, you may want to speak to a trusted medical professional about assessing the symptoms of abuse or to your local Adult Protective Services office.2

1 Recognizing and Responding to Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse in Later Life,” American Society on Aging
2Abuse of the Elderly,” World Health Organization

How common is elder abuse among older adults?

The National Counsel on Aging reports that one in ten Americans aged 60+ have experienced some form of elder abuse. However, only one in fourteen cases of elder abuse are reported to the authorities. In almost 60% of elder abuse and neglect incidents, the perpetrator is a family member and most likely an adult child or spouse. Other times, abuse happens in institutions, such as residential care, hospitals, and day care facilities.1

However, there are several reasons that it may be hard for researchers to get completely accurate elder abuse statistics. For instance, like many victims of abuse, older adults may be unwilling to report their abuse because they are scared the abuse will get worse. Some victims of elder abuse are unable to report their abuse or are not believed when they do report it because of their physical or mental condition.2

1 Elder Abuse Facts,” National Counsel on Aging
2Elder Abuse,” Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN)

What are the risk factors for elder abuse?

There may be certain risk factors that make a caregiver more likely to commit elder abuse in both the home and in professional care environments, such as:

  • current and untreated mental illness;
  • current abuse of alcohol;
  • lack of patience;
  • having a “short temper;”
  • lack of preparation and training for caregiving responsibilities;
  • caregiving from an early age;
  • lack of coping skills;
  • exposure to abuse as a child;
  • financial or emotional dependence on a vulnerable older adult;
  • a history of disruptive behavior;
  • lack of social and institutional support;
  • lack of formal services in the community for caregivers, like respite care or frequent breaks or shift changes at a nursing home;
  • an environment that tolerates or accepts aggressive behavior;
  • lack of administrative or community oversight for healthcare personnel, guardians, or other people responsible for an older adult’s care;
  • isolation from friends, family, or a support network;
  • negative or unsympathetic beliefs about older adults and aging; or
  • under-staffing, staff burnout, and stressful working conditions.1

1 This information was adapted from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Additional info and where to get help

I am an older adult experiencing elder abuse. How could abuse affect my health and wellbeing?

Unfortunately, there have not been many studies about the long-term effects of elder abuse on older adults. The studies that have been done, however, show that many of the immediate effects of elder abuse are similar to the signs of elder abuse, including physical damage, like welts, bruises, and other injuries, and emotional damage, such as agitation, shame, and regression. Other effects of elder abuse include:

  • problems with eating and drinking;
  • difficulty sleeping;
  • increased vulnerability to new illnesses, including sexually-transmitted infections;
  • increased damage from existing health conditions;
  • greater risks of fear and anxiety;
  • inability to care for oneself;
  • post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD); and
  • greater risks of early death.1

1 This information was adapted from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Can I get a restraining order for elder abuse?

If you are being abused by a caregiver, or if an older adult you know is being abused by a caregiver, you or the older adult you know may qualify for a restraining order. This could be a restraining order for domestic violence or a restraining order specifically for “elder abuse” or for “vulnerable adults,” depending on your state.

The following states and territories have legal orders that specifically protect older or vulnerable adults from abuse by someone who is supposed to be responsible for their care:

Alabama
California
Colorado
Florida (coming soon on WomensLaw.org!)
Illinois
Iowa
Maine
Maryland
Oregon
Puerto Rico
South Dakota
Tennessee (coming soon on WomensLaw.org!)
Washington
Wisconsin
Virgin Islands (coming soon on WomensLaw.org!)

In states without a specific order protecting older or vulnerable adults, you may still be able to get legal protection from another kind of order. For instance, an older adult who is being abused by a family member may be able to get an order protecting victims of domestic violence. Check your state’s available restraining orders by selecting your state in our Know the Laws – By State section.

Where can I find additional resources and help for elder abuse?

If you want to learn more about how elder abuse can affect older adults and how to get help, here are some additional websites that may be helpful:

You can also find organizations that help victims of elder abuse on our National Organizations – Elder Abuse page.