What factors will a judge consider when deciding alimony?
Alimony, also called “spousal support and maintenance,” is financial support paid by one spouse to the other. If you request alimony, the judge will consider the following factors:
- the financial resources each of you have;
- how long you were married;
- the “standard of living” you and your spouse had while you were married, which might include things like what your expenses were and what kind of house you lived in;
- how old you and your spouse are;
- each spouse’s physical and emotional condition;
- any custody and child support responsibilities either of you have;
- any additional burdens either spouse takes on for the benefit of their children;
- the usual jobs each of you had during the marriage;
- the needs of both spouses;
- your vocational skills and employability;
- your ability to support yourself on your own;
- your spouse’s ability to meet his/her own financial needs while also meeting yours;
- any other factors that measure the financial situation that each of you would be in once the judge decides whether or not to grant alimony;
- the amount of time that you would likely need support;
- any money or property that was deliberately hidden from the judge by either spouse; and
- any history of violating a restraining order against the other spouse.1
1 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 580-47(a)




