Can I leave Hawai‘i with my child, take on new debts, or sell/transfer assets after a divorce is filed?
When a person files a divorce complaint in court, an “automatic restraining order” goes into effect. The restrictions in the automatic order immediately apply to the spouse who filed the complaint. They will apply to the other spouse as soon as s/he is served with the summons and complaint.1
The automatic restraining order says that neither party can:
- remove their child from the island where the child currently lives;
- remove their child from the school that the child is currently attending;
- take on any new debts that would put a burden on the credit of the other party, unless it’s a reasonable amount of debt that is necessary for:
- living and business expenses;
- a child’s educational expenses; or
- reasonable fees and costs related to litigating the divorce case;
- change the beneficiary of any life insurance policy, pension, or retirement plan, or pension or retirement investment account, unless:
- the other spouse agreed to the change in writing; or
- the judge ordered it;
- cause the other party or a minor child to be removed from coverage under an existing insurance policy, including medical, dental, life, automobile, and disability insurance; and
- sell, transfer, hide, remove, or in any way get rid of any property that belongs to either party, except if doing so is necessary because:
- s/he has to pay reasonable living expenses or reasonable attorney’s fees and costs related to the divorce;
- it is in the “ordinary and usual course of business” to do so – in other words, it’s something that the spouse has regularly done during the marriage;
- the spouses agreed in writing that it’s okay; or
- it’s required by the judge.2
The automatic restraining order lasts until the divorce is final, unless:
- the parties agree otherwise; or
- the judge makes an order that changes its terms.3
1 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 580-10.5(a)
2 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 580-10.5(a)(1) - (a)(5)
3 Haw. Rev. Stat. § 580-10.5(e)




