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How can I get a "stay away" order removed that is a condition of his parole?

Thank you for reaching out to us.

I don’t know that you will necessarily be able to get the order removed. With parole stipulations, I don’t know if it is the state (the prosecutor) who makes the terms of parole or if it is the parole board but perhaps your best bet is to approach both and ask if you are able to remove this provision.

If you are thinking of dropping the order because you think that he has changed in prison and now will no longer be abusive, please think about that fact that he likely isn’t bothering you because he is fearful of violating the order and being re-arrested. Many men abuse their partners even after they’ve “promised not to” or after they swear that they have “changed.” If you are able to drop the order, there is nothing to stop him from re-starting the abuse that caused the need for order in the first place. If you get rid of your order, you will lose all of the protection that your order gives you. You might want to talk to a local domestic violence advocate before trying to drop the order to see what other options may work for you instead. Go to our State and Local programs page to find local advocates:
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