Know the Laws: New Jersey
UPDATED June 8, 2012
A restraining order is a civil order that provides protection from harm by a family or household member.
A restraining order is a civil order issued by a judge that provides protection for you and your family from harm by a spouse or former spouse, a present or former household member, a person you have a child in common with or expect to have a child in common with (if you are currently pregnant), or a person you've had a dating relationship with.*
* NJSA § 2C:25-19(d)
This section defines domestic violence for the purposes of getting a restraining order.
Domestic violence is when an adult (or an emancipated minor) who has the relationship to you that is described here commits one of the following crimes against you:
You can find the definition of each of the above crimes on our NJ Statutes page.
Note: An emancipated minor is someone who is under 18 but who has been married, has entered military service, has a child, is pregnant or has been emancipated by a court.** If an unemancipated minor commits one of the above acts, it can be the basis for a delinquency petition* (which is different than a petition for a restraining order). You can read more about delinquency petitions on our NJ Statutes page.
* NJSA § 2C:25-19(a)
** NJSA § 2C:25-19(e)
In NJ, there are a few different types of restraining orders. The type of restraining order you get depends on whether or not the judge believes you need immediate protection from the abuser.
If you need immediate protection when the courts are closed (such as on a weekend, late night or holiday), you can call your local police department or 911. There will be a judge on call who is assigned to handle emergency requests for restraining orders. The police should tell you if it is a judge from the Family Part of the Chancery Division of the Superior Court or if it is a municipal court judge who is available to provide emergency temporary restraining orders. If the judge thinks that the order is necessary to protect your life, health or well-being, s/he may grant you an emergency order.* An emergency order is designed to give you protection until a court opens and you have a chance to ask for an ex parte temporary restraining order (TRO). The emergency order will last until a judge of the Family Part of the Chancery Division of the Superior Court grants you or denies you a further order. Note: If a municipal judge denies you an emergency temporary order, you can re-file with a judge of the Family Part of the Chancery Division of the Superior Court for an emergency order based on the same incident.**
Temporary restraining order (TRO)
When you file a complaint for a restraining order during normal court business hours, you can ask for a temporary restraining order to be issued immediately. A judge will give you this ex parte temporary restraining order (TRO) if s/he finds that the order is necessary to protect your life, health or well-being and cannot wait to receive an order at the hearing for a final restraining order. An "ex parte" TRO means that the judge will make this decision based only on the information you provide, without the abuser being in court. If you cannot be physically present in court due to extreme circumstances, a judge can issue a temporary restraining order upon the sworn testimony or complaint of you or of a person who represents you if you are physically or mentally incapable of filing personally. This temporary order will last until your full court hearing for the final restraining order where the abuser has an opportunity to testify and present evidence.** A full court hearing for a final restraining order will be scheduled within 10 days after a temporary restraining order is issued.***
Final restraining order
After a hearing in which you both have an opportunity to tell your side of the story through testimony, evidence, and witnesses, a judge can grant you a final restraining order. Unless there is an expiration date on it, a final restraining order can last forever --or until one of one of the parties files a legal motion in court asking the judge to end or modify (change) the order and the judge agrees.****
* NJSA §§ 2C:25-28(a); 2C:25-28(f)
** NJSA § 2C:25-28(h),(i)
*** NJSA § 2C:25-29(a)
**** NJSA § 2C:25-29(d)
A temporary, ex parte order can:
A final restraining order can order the abuser to:
A final restraining order can also give you the following:
Whether a judge orders any or all of the above depends on the facts of your case.
* NJSA 2C:25-28(j),(k)
** NJSA § 2C:25-29(b)
You can file a petition in the county where you live (or where you are temporarily living, if you’ve left home to avoid further abuse), in the county where the abuser lives, or in the county where the abuse occurred.* However, if you are trying to keep your address confidential, filing in the county where you have fled to would likely not be a good idea since it would alert the abuser to the fact that you are living in that county.
* NJSA § 2C:25-28(a)