Know the Laws: North Carolina
UPDATED December 14, 2010
Although many people believe that an annulment is based on the length of the marriage, how long the couple has been married is not the determining factor about whether or not a spouse can get an annulment. You can read through the reasons for an annulment on this government website. You can read the language of the law regarding the grounds for getting an annulment on our NC Statutes page.
To file for divorce in NC, one spouse must have been living in North Carolina for at least six months* prior to the filing.** It does not matter if you were married in NC or in another state.
* NCGS § 50-6
** NCGS § 50-8
North Carolina is a “no fault state,” which means that you do not have to prove that either spouse is at fault to get a divorce.
There are only two grounds (reasons) for divorce in NC:
The majority of marriages are dissolved based on the ground of separation for one year. In order to get divorced under this ground, you must have lived in separate residences for one year and at least one spouse must have had the intent to remain separate and apart. You do not need to file for legal separation. Legal separation happens once a husband and wife begin living separate and apart (in separate residences).
Note: North Carolina does provide for a legal separation called “divorce from bed and board,"*** but this is rarely used in North Carolina. Although it is called “divorce” from bed and board, it is addressed before a divorce and it does not actually dissolve (end) the marriage. It is a fault-based action, usually brought by an injured spouse to get the court to order the other spouse out of the residence. You must establish at least one of the following fault grounds: abandonment (where one spouse leaves the marital residence without justification or consent of the other spouse and has no intent to return), malicious turning out of doors (your spouse threw you out), cruel or barbarous treatment (such as domestic violence), indignities (a pattern of behavior that causes it to be intolerable to live with the spouse), excessive use of alcohol or drugs to the point where you cannot tolerate living with your spouse, or adultery (when your spouse “cheats on you”). For more information on “divorce from bed and board,” please talk to a lawyer who specializes in divorce. Go to NC Finding a Lawyer.
* NCGS § 50-6
** NCGS § 50-5.1
*** NCGS § 50-7
We hope the following link to an outside source may be helpful.
Legal Aid of North Carolina has a do-it-yourself divorce packet, which includes divorce forms that you might need, an explanation of the divorce process, and a glossary of terms you might encounter if you choose to get divorced. You should not use this packet, however, if you wish to get spousal support or divide property between you and your spouse.
WomensLaw.org is unrelated to the above organization and cannot vouch for the accuracy of its site. We provide these links for your information only.